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Let's Talk about Sexual Intimacy

By: Liza Tornton

Sexuality is tightly related to a person's inner feelings, ideas, values and body. It doesn't imply only the sex session itself and other sex related issues.
Talking about sexuality is quite a difficult matter as most people have no idea about the meaning of this word. Here below are presented certain tips that can be taken into account when deciding to discuss with your children or sex partner about sexuality.

-To determine one's sexuality a person should determine what he/she feels comfortable or uncomfortable with and what brings him/her pleasure. Moreover, the individual should be capable to notice the effects of his/her words and actions on other people.

-When talking about sexuality individuals are suggested to use a good decision making tool. In order to take the right decision people are invited to think patiently and then act. This way of taking decisions will help people make clear their further actions and wishes.

-Prior to open this subject for discussion in front of your relative, close friend, peer or parents, practice in a mirror a little bit as this procedure is considered to boost your self-esteem.

-Make sure you have established short-run and long-run goals! Moreover, do not forget to set realistic boundaries for yourself!

-When talking to your friend, a potential sex partner or a trusted adult, make sure you speak correctly, directly, firmly and clearly!

-Prior to engage in any sex session or other sexual activity, individuals are advised to talk with a possible sex partner about their own sexual limits, risks, undesired pregnancy and STDs. It's a fact that every physical touch boosts one's sexual desire, thus increasing partners' risks to have unprotected sex. You'd better speak before the foreplay starts because it will be too heavy to stop amid lovemaking.

-Start talking about sexuality in a neutral and pleasant place! Persons are suggested to find a place where both they could feel themselves comfortable and bothered by others. The topic shouldn't be reached in the bedroom, in the car or any secluded place.

-A great way to speak about sexuality or other “hot topics” is to resort to humor and entertainment. Different Television shows, popular songs, books are quite efficient sources of information and may be the best approach to the discussion.

-Always listen! Never interrupt another persons! Let them express their own feelings and reveal their desires by having in front a good listener. Keep eye contact, ask if you don't know or understand and bring into being your conclusion or responses only after the speaker was done talking.

-Try to be an interesting communicator. Try to understand a person's opinion, point of view, be fair and always use a positive response like a smile or an OK touch. Stay away from negative messages. Do not interrupt people or frown, yawn, yell, etc.

-Abstain from using alcohol or drugs before having an important discussion.

-Find out and prepare the information you need to communicate about sexuality in time.

-Never forget about reaching this discussion! Sexuality is quite an important subject as it implies one's life and state. And you should remember that once you do not feel ready to express your sexuality with a partner, don't do it! This is a private matter and you don't need to reveal it to everybody.

Think over these issues and try to put a strong and reliable basis for a further healthy sexual life. Good luck!

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